Friday, 20 November 2009

Yeay..big bucks are coming in babeh!

Alhamdlh,finally m being hired!
I went for an interview on 3rd Nov..even though the deputy CEO was keen to take me in,i didn't put any high hope as they didn't communicate with me for the past 2 weeks. I thought the chance that i might got has been thrown to drain.

Then, a friend of my friend told me that a big 4 in middle east is currently looking for a qualified chartered acc10 and yes i did send my resume. To my surprise, while i was waiting for my 2nd movie to watch last Monday, i received a call from a director from that Big 4 middle east firm. It was smooth...and the next day, HR called me.

M yet to receive another call that pertains to the technical quests on IFRS which most probably will be conducted after Eid Adha. But, based on the first 2 conversations that i had with this director, it was very convincing..n i do hope that i can get this chance!I might say gdbye to Msia for the second time!

On Thurs, i received another call from a company which i've attended the interview on 3rd Nov.Yes, they are offering me the job and i need to come to their office to do some computer assessment on Friday.

Guess what, the assessments were challenging. I didn't say that it was tough. But I did well..They have 2 case studies which i need to analyse the data and presented in 3 slides for CEO to review. Then i have to write a short essay abt my expectation with that co, what i can deliver and how my experiences related to it.

Oh ya, i've also met my EXPwC colleague there. She has been there for the past 9 months and she told me that, i was the only one who managed to get into their CF dept. There will be only 2 of us in the department! Gosh!

Oh this CF job scope is not similar to banks, so basically what they do are they work closely with the external auditors on potential JVs, Mergers & Acquisitions.

Well, if i didn't get any calls from that BIG 4, m gonna say goodbye to IFRS then..:)

10 mins later, i received a phone call from HR and yes, i got through! Gonna start work on Monday! Yes..and i feel bliss as the distance from offc to my house takes only 10mins!

Wish me luck

Tuesday, 10 November 2009

Being a single 27 years old highly educated chic, you will be in the lime light at wedding receptions ( be it your friend’s or relative’s wedding occasion). All these kepochi pakciks and makciks will start asking your parents and the possible questions are:

‘ Eh, Dah besar eh anak dara kau, bile nak makan nasi minyak ni’.
‘Wah, lawa anak dara kau ni, dah ada orang ker?Belaja pandai-pandai, takkanlah tak pandai cari bf’
‘Oh, ni mesti memilih ini. Janganlah memilih, nanti tak kahwin kau. Jangan jual mahal sangat, nanti terus tak laku’


Berdesing jugaklah telinga kalau dengar soalan-soalan macam ini. But, there is nothing much that you can do. You don’t have the power to satisfy everybody. And I do believe that my parents also feel the pressure when people start interrogating them like a suspect for murder.

I know that in life, you wouldn’t be getting things that you’ve been dreaming of. Anyway, it isn't bad to be SINGLE. I enjoyed being single, able to live as free as a bird and able to flirt with any guys that I want. When I meet my ex-schoolmates who have little midget in their stomach and holding 2 munchkins both left and right, it triggers me how blissful I am for not being married.
And yes, I do want to get married but it’s not the right time for me yet. God knows what’s good and bad for me and I leave everything to him. Furthermore, I haven’t met my MR RIGHT yet. Sometimes, I think I’m already married to my parents, my life and career (soon to be).

I’m about to attend wedding reception this Sunday. I can’t escape! It’s my cousin wedding and thank GOD, I’m no longer become bunga telur girl. Another stressful day to go through..I better polish my armour . 

~Wedding bells~









It's not that i'm getting married soon, it just something that came to my mind before i dozed off to bed last night. I don't think that my time will come soon and this is because i don't even have somebody special at this moment.Definitely, you won't be getting any wedding invitations from me anytime soon.ahhahaha

Oh, school holiday is just around the corner and YES, i did received lOTS of wedding invitations..Actually, m sicked of attending wedding invitations anymore. I guess at this age, wherever you go, u will be asked when is your turn to get hitch?

Yah, i know, this is disastrous for me, 27 single and brainy chic!ahaks.

Nway, for those who are going to get married soon..here are some tips for you:

1.Budget (Inclusive hantaran, dewan makan, catering, bilik pengantin..etc)
2.Your wedding theme
3.Create a guest list
4.Door gifts
5.House hunting
6.Honeymoon destination (After all the busy period and hard work, it would be perfect to spend with your soulmate at a romantic, breath-taking view place and have ur peace of mind)

I think that;s all that i can think off..

Planning for more get away trips

Di kala kebosanan ni, accidentally aku jumpe tempat2 menarik yg wajib dilawati di MALAYSIA, tanah tumpah airku...

Disember ni, aku dan kawan2 plan nak g jenguk kelip2 kat Kuala Selangor. Tempat tuh kat Kampung Kuantan dan nak tgk kelip2 tuh kna naik bot. Ada org ckp, ada buaya kat situ.
WELL, bende2 yg best ni, mesti ada penghalangkan. Takpela, tak kire..nak jugak tgk Kelip2 @ Kuala Selangor.

Insyallah, kalau ada duit lebih, bULAN Mar-Apr, ingat nak pergi Pulau Perhentian/Rendang. Either one la..tp mcm nak g pulau perhentian..Kawan aku ckp bleh tgk dolphins kat situ. Yela, dah tak dpt tgk kat Wales, dpt tgk kat sini pon jadilah.

Next on the list is Gunung Gading National Park. Kat sini ada caves, ada RAFFLESIA dan ada air terjun.

Ni semua baru planning ar..pasni kna carik kaki nak pergi B-)

Saturday, 7 November 2009

The best way to keep one's word is not to give it.

It's so frustrating and heart-aching when someone breaks his promises. To me, when you have made promises to somebody, you are oblige to keep it and deliver it accordingly.

I think it's already a high time for me to realize that i shouldn't place any hopes on words that came out from his mouth.

God is great and he knows what is best for you.
Insyallah, i will be alright and a lesson to learn here...never believe when guys make promises to you because they are vulnerable.

Tuesday, 20 October 2009

Again about relationship??

Since I'm still waiting for the calls for interviews, internet has become my best friend. Once i got up from bed, i will greet my laptop Morning and same goes for Good Night.

I came across an article where it says that us (the single ladies) should know about the signs that guys gave. I'm saying that this is NOT 100% accurate plus with the box office movie which was shown ' He's just NOT into you', at least IT give us guidance on hints that guys gave to us.

Here are the 99 things that we should know about guys and let me put myself into these scenarios:

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.

5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
[Checked]


6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep,they always think about the girl they truly care about.

7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.

8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
[Checked- He always always tried to pick a fight with whenever we meet]


10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

13. Guys cry!!!

14. Don't provoke(irritate) the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.

18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
Came across with this answer and i write him off!


22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."

23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

24. Guys hate gays!

25. Guys love their moms.
[Checked]


26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.

28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
He likes to gossip!Gosh!


31. Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses.

32. Guys are very open about themselves.
]He told me about his past, even though i didn't raise any questions about his family


33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.

34. No guy is bad when he is courting

35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
[Oohh i love this one though!]


37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
[Will do]


39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
[Oh yeah? He always do this to me!]


40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

45. Guys think too much.

46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.

47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
[That's y m watching my weight now!]


48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!!

49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.

**51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.

52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
[No wonder he is immatured]


53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.

56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.

57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying,"Please come and listen to me"

59. Guys don't really have final decisions.

60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.*

65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
[He knows that i love to bake!]


69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.***********

74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.

75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.

76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.

77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
[Selekeh?ahhaha]


80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,they'll realize they're wrong.

81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.

82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.

84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.

85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.

86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.

87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance,ignore him.

88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at u and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
[Erm his friend did this to me last last time..They were smiling whenever we made conversations..errm]


90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
[Oh yeah? No wonder we have lots of 'Hari mendengar masalahku' haahahha]


96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
[He scolded me when i said 'rambut ko kusut!'sorry eh..]


97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.

98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

It does not matter how many hints he gave. For me, i need a guaranteed. I do need him to confess that he loves me before i say that to him..

Whatever it is, keep praying and always open you options in finding a better person.

Thursday, 15 October 2009

Places that i want to visit before my last breathe~

Channel travel and living has always be my favorite channel on ASTRO. After i had my breakfast, indulged with a mug of nescafe and finished reading newspaper, i switched on TV and i was so lucky to watch this program on #707. It was on 1000 places that u must see before u die..

When i was working with PwC, i never bothered (plus i didn't have much ample time) to appreciate the nature. However, 1 year being abroad has opened my eyes to appreciate god's creations. Alhamdulilah, i managed to see many beautiful and breathtaking views when i was in UK and Europe.



Slowly I've developed my interest in outdoor activities such as hiking and exploring new things in life. There was a man whom i met while i was hiking along the Hadrian's Wall in Newcastle mentioned to me that he admired my courage and braveness to hike along the wall without taking any breaks and wearing a proper gear (especially with the unfriendly weather as it was raining like cats and dogs at that time). My friend and i hike for 2 1/2 mile and it was tremendous experience ever.

Anyway..the places that i wanna visit before my eyes are closed are:

1. Maldives


My jaw dropped on the table when i first saw its pictures on TV. My ideal honeymoon place would be here..yes here! But this thing only happen if i would be able to marry a millionaire! It costs a bomb to spend a night at this resort..




2. Taj Mahal

I would really feel that I'm already in Heaven if i could get few sips of cafe latte with the view of sunrise at Taj Mahal. Nothing would able to describe my feeling at that time, it might be romantic + am i already in heaven? + simply amazing!




3. Giza Pyramids

When i entered the Luvre (a museum in Paris which happens to the largest museum in the world), beside the portrait of Mona Lisa, an Egyptian antiques have always captured my eyes. I love everything about them..from the sculptures to the coffins, i love all the craved stuffs..

And a trip to Giza would be very challenging trip especially the crawling part inside the pyramids and this is a place that i want to visit before i turn 30!






4. Krabi Island in Thailand.

Thailand is synonym with it's speechless beautiful beaches. I hope to spend few nights watching sunset in Thailand. It would be great if i could go with my girlfriends. Insyallah, i shall realize this dream somewhere in 2011.


5. Pulau Sipadan, Pulau Perhentian and Pulau Redang

I am hoping that i would be able to pay these places a visit in 2010. A friend of mine said that it's possible to watch dolphins at Pulau Redang in April. I do hope and always keep my fingers crossed that he would be able to bring me to this place. Although he's always busy with his current job, i do hope that he would be able to keep his word to me. If not, i would really feel devastated.

I never tried snorkeling before and being in these islands, snorkeling is a must thing to do!


There goes my list..my TOP 5..i do have some more..but for a time being, let me only disclose the TOP 5.How about you? I'm sure you also have places that you want to visit before your last breathe.

alive - j lo

alive - j lo

Soul Therapy..

Time goes slowly

now in my life

Fear no more of what I'm not sure

Searching for your soul

The strength to stand alone

the power of not knowing and letting go

I guess I've found my way it's simple when its right

Feeling lucky just to be here tonight

And happy just be me and be alive.

Love, in and out, of my heart,

And though life can be strange I can't be afraid

Searching for your soul, the strength to stand alone,

The power of not knowing and letting go

I guess I've found my way it's simple when it's right

Feeling lucky just to be here tonight

And happy just to be me and be alive

I guess I've found my way it's simple when its right

Feeling lucky just to be here tonight and

Happy just to be me and to be alive.